Articles


My blog is about various topics of interest to the ambitious goal-setter. Here you’ll find some of the articles I’ve written on relationships, personal development and the law of attraction, among other categories.

 

Most Popular Posts

How To Silence Your Biggest Hater

10 Inspiring Quotes By Black Women

3 Ways Black People Hold Ourselves Back

50 Black She-Roes Part 2: Arts and Fashion

9 Reasons Mellody Hobson Is My She-Ro

10 Reasons Oprah Is My She-Ro

 

Motivated Sista Circle

How Do You Define Success?

What’s Your Motivation?

 

Motivation

Are You Still Getting It In?

Come Drop In My Bucket

Guard Your Dreams With Your Life

3 Action Steps To Take TODAY

Just Say Yes To Change

Wipe Your Slate Clean

How Fast Do You Keep It Moving

Invisible Growth Of Your Goals

You Are The CEO of You

It’s Never Too Late To Start

Sometimes You’ll Stand Alone

How To Reach The Stars

Do You Know How Short Your Life Is?

How Much Do You Invest In You?

How Bad Do You Want Success?

Are You As Optimistic As You Think You Are?

Adjusting Your Priorities

Why Can’t You?

You Are Not Your Circumstances

 

Personal Development

On Days When  You’re Not Feeling It

The Scam Of Unselfishness

Take Time For Small Moments

Fences Aren’t Made For Straddling

What’s The Story In Your Head?

Recognize Who You Are

1st Quarter Reflections

Define Your Own Truth

Are You Ready to GO HARD?

Are You Still Going Hard?

Do You Know Where You’re Going?

What Self-Love Really Means

10 Reasons To Turn Off The TV

Why Age-Accomplishment Lists Suck

10 Things I Learned In My 20s (Part I)

10 Things I Learned In My 20s (Part II)

Don’t Hesitate To Toot Your Own Horn

What Is The Cost of Fear?

Write Your Own Playbook

 

Self-Esteem

Swallow Your Fear Of Success

6 Reasons Why You Are Extraordinary

Take Some Time For Love

What I Want To Be When I Grow Up

What Self Love Really Means

 

Relationships

10 Reasons My Grandad Is My Hero

You’re Smarter Than You Think

Maximize Your Return On Investment

Why I’m Throwing My List Away – And You Should Too

Open Letter To My Single Sista

No More Mr. Nice Guy (Part I)

No More Mr. Nice Guy (Part II)

How Do You Determine Your Behavior In Relationships?

Four Ways To Get Mom In Your Corner

Why Your Friends’ Intentions Don’t Matter

How To Treat Dating Like A Job Search

How To Treat Dating Like A Job Search (Part II)

How To Treat Dating Like A Job Search (Part III) 

 

Inspiration

10 Reasons To Be Happy Right Now

Sleepwalking And Donuts

Time To Pay What You Owe

10 Reasons Lisa Price Is My She-Ro

10 Reasons Dorothy Height Is My She-Ro

10 Reasons Ray Kroc Is My Hero

10 Reasons Marian Wright Edelman Is My She-Ro

10 Reasons Why Esperanza Spalding Is My She-Ro

9 Reasons Coco Chanel Is My She-Ro

50 Black She-Roes And Why We Love Them

50 Black She-Roes Part 3: Singers and Actresses

50 Black She-Roes Part 4: Civil Rights Leaders

50 Black She-Roes Part 5: Historical Firsts

 

Law of Attraction

Life Is Just Like Frozen Custard

Your Best Vision Board Ever

Take Your Vision Farther

How To Keep The Motivation Going

Time To Update Your Vision Board

“I Just Want To Be Successful” 

The Secret of Autosuggestion

 

Health

Change Your Mind, Change Your Body

What Are Your Guilty Pleasures?

Put Your Life First

Getting Back On The Wagon

Four Ways To Deal With Burnout

Why You Should Be Concerned About AIDS?

 

Book Reviews 

Reclaim Your Dreams by Jonathan Mead

Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway

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