Comments for Motivated Sista

Comment on You Are All That Matters by Tammy Chandler

Tammy Chandler — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 15:59:11 +0000

O my goodness, this one drove me to tears! I am fighting this issue right now. I know I am and can do better for myself if I make some drastic changes in my life (like relocating,) yet NO ONE in my life is supportive of that. Actually against it because I have a child and they dont believe that I should uproot him from his “home” or leave him behind with his father. My past still holds me back till this day and it is driving me crazy! Thanks for the read…..have to go finish crying and than MAKE A DECISION!

P.S. you must be a fly on the wall in my head!

Comment on Swallow Your Fear Of Success by Anilia

Anilia — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 15:09:07 +0000

Just try to take one step, even if its a small one. (“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” ~ MLK Jr.) Even if that first step is researching how to do whatever it is that you’re dreaming about, or repeating positive thoughts over and over again until they’re permanently in your mind.

Telling yourself you shouldn’t be is just a form of beating yourself up, and it gets added to the nonstop chatter in your mind. Whenever you have thoughts like that, just think a positive thought until its a habit. You’ll be amazed at how that paralysis goes away after a time.

Comment on On Days When You’re Not Feeling It by Anilia

Anilia — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 15:05:26 +0000

I luv luv luv meditating! I wish I would’ve embraced it years ago. I think more people should journal too.

Comment on Swallow Your Fear Of Success by Miss V

Miss V — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 03:53:43 +0000

I was just thinking the other day about how I feared failure and success. Well, I’ve definitely failed in my life, but I’m still afraid of success. Though I realize that the only way to ‘do it’ is just to do it, I’m paralyzed with fear. I should’nt be but I am.

Comment on On Days When You’re Not Feeling It by Jamie

Jamie — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 21:08:52 +0000

When I’m having a down day, I usually try to sort out my feelings by journaling and meditating.

I really like the tips you’ve suggested here. I really needed to read this. Thanks!

Comment on 10 Reasons To Be Happy RIGHT NOW by Vanessa F.

Vanessa F. — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 16:17:40 +0000

Definitely plan to print this out and posted it at my desk. Thank you for the inspiration Anilia!

Comment on Swallow Your Fear Of Success by Anilia

Anilia — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 23:51:55 +0000

you’re welcome!

I have to find practical ways of getting around issues, because if its not easy to implement then I won’t do it!

Comment on Swallow Your Fear Of Success by Professher

Professher — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 16:17:55 +0000

Wow. I love how you don’t mess around in the realm of therapists, but STILL have useful suggestions that can be applied TODAY and without hours of study, talk, courses, and the like. Every time you drink water or check e-mail? BRILLIANT and easy, all at once. Thanks!

Comment on 10 Reasons To Be Happy RIGHT NOW by Sherry Hithon

Sherry Hithon — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 14:55:26 +0000

Thanks Anilla for the possibility thinking!

Comment on How To Silence Your Biggest Hater by drock

drock — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 02:19:28 +0000

very eye opening for me! iv gone to a counselor because of my constant worry. this really helpes and put it into perspective